
Think and Grow Rich: The Landmark Bestseller Now Revised and Updated for the 21st Century (Think and Grow Rich Series)
Napoleon Hill and Arthur R. Pell
4.7 on Amazon
62 HN comments

Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us
Daniel H. Pink
4.5 on Amazon
61 HN comments

Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
James Clear and Penguin Audio
4.8 on Amazon
60 HN comments

Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win
Jocko Willink, Leif Babin, et al.
4.8 on Amazon
59 HN comments

Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking
Malcolm Gladwell and Hachette Audio
4.6 on Amazon
55 HN comments

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Guided Journal (Goals Journal, Self Improvement Book)
Stephen R. Covey and Sean Covey
4.6 on Amazon
55 HN comments

The Happiness Hypothesis: Finding Modern Truth in Ancient Wisdom
Jonathan Haidt
4.6 on Amazon
50 HN comments

Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life
Marhsall B. Rosenberg
4.7 on Amazon
48 HN comments

Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking
Susan Cain
4.6 on Amazon
45 HN comments

Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion
Sam Harris and Simon & Schuster Audio
4.4 on Amazon
42 HN comments

Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth, and Happiness
Richard H. Thaler and Cass R. Sunstein
4.4 on Amazon
40 HN comments

No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and Life (Updated)
Dr Robert Glover and Recorded Books
4.6 on Amazon
39 HN comments

The 48 Laws of Power
Robert Greene
4.7 on Amazon
37 HN comments

Be Here Now
Ram Dass
4.7 on Amazon
33 HN comments

Who Moved My Cheese?: An A-Mazing Way to Deal with Change in Your Work and in Your Life
Spencer Johnson, Kenneth Blanchard, et al.
4.6 on Amazon
31 HN comments
michaelmcmillanonMay 2, 2020
kaweraonDec 21, 2020
ryanSrichonDec 7, 2015
1. http://www.samharris.org/podcast
ramblermanonFeb 25, 2015
misiti3780onFeb 1, 2018
arbitrarywordsonNov 28, 2014
It's a bit more abstract than a how-to manual, more why and what.
http://www.amazon.com/Waking-Up-Spirituality-Without-Religio...
adrice727onNov 28, 2014
gfodoronDec 8, 2014
tbastosonNov 17, 2014
oafitupaonDec 7, 2015
carrollgt91onJuly 13, 2018
I sometimes enjoy the podcast by the same name as well, though the conversations are more hit or miss.
bootheadonOct 6, 2014
ycombineteonAug 8, 2018
rk0567onDec 8, 2014
+ Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion - Sam Harris
+ Free Will - Sam Harris
+ Mindfulness in Plain English - Bhante Henepola Gunaratana
s3cur3onSep 16, 2020
https://www.wakingup.com
boltzmannbrainonSep 3, 2018
by Sam Harris: http://a.co/d/bpQ6OlS
"The God Delusion" by Richard Dawkins: http://a.co/d/2aP5Tvo
"Why Buddhism is True: The Science and Philosophy of Meditation and Enlightenment" by Robert Wright: http://a.co/d/8IawuEo
Sam Harris discusses these topics (amongst others you may find interesting) in conversations on his podcast: https://samharris.org/podcast/
peapekonOct 6, 2020
For anyone interested in getting started, I can absolutely recommend Waking Up by Sam Harris. (The idea behind the app's name is just what you do - starting the day with a mindfulness meditation.)
The App has a great 28 day introductionary course (easily digestible 10 minute sessions), among others, and is expanding its content right now. If you can't afford a subscription, you can easily unlock it for free simply by sending a mail to the support.
johnthedebsonJune 14, 2016
Tim Ferriss Interview: http://fourhourworkweek.com/2014/06/18/sam-harris/
Waking Up (narrated by Sam himself, which I prefer): http://www.audible.com/pd/Religion-Spirituality/Waking-Up-Au...
stefantalpalaruonJan 27, 2017
In "Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion" he wrote a bunch of silly stuff - thoroughly referenced with cherry-picked scientific articles - about the split brain. He went as far as estimating the amount of data passing through the corpus callosum when we don't even have a computational model for the brain.
It was almost as ridiculous as claiming that the self is an illusion because we can experience its apparent dissolution.
pbwonMay 21, 2017
Thousands of years of meditation practices have proven that living in the moment is very possible. Yes our brains are constantly planning and scheming and trying to derail us, but this can be addressed with a modest amount of deliberate practice.
Perhaps imagining the future is emblematic of humans, and maybe that has developed over the last 2 million years, but animals have been around 300 million years, and they are (presumably) quite adept at living in the moment. We can be as well. Striving towards that goal is very beneficial and rewarding.
One entry point to meditation is Sam Harris's book Waking Up which I describe here: http://www.kmeme.com/2016/07/waking-up.html
FabHKonFeb 25, 2017
I've made the same comment (nothing original, as I said... :) elsewhere in this thread, and someone replied with the golden rule, maybe you want to read the discussion:
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=13731755
Elsewhere, the argument has been made that the miraculous parts of Christianity (virgin birth, resurrection, etc.) are largely not original, but collages of earlier prophets, though I couldn't point you to that literature off the top of my head, and it's not the point we're discussing anyways.
sademaonJuly 13, 2018
[2] Guns, Germs and Steel - Can't believe I waited so long to check this off my list. Very thorough and well written argument about how geography and environment shaped the modern world.
[3] Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion - Scientific and philosophical reasoning for why the self is an illusion. Covers a lot of ground without getting too heavy: Buddhism, mediation, neuroscience, religion, and more.
davorbonNov 4, 2016
meditation can seem ...well, wacky. That's why I would suggest
listening to a few episodes of Sam Harris' podcast. Specifically those
about the mind and consciousness in general. He's got a background in
neuroscience and approaches this subject from a viewpoint that you
might feel more comfortable with.
He's also written a whole book about this topic, called "Waking Up: a
Guide to Spirituality Without Religion", which I think might be of interest to you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VMiPBy4Zwag
imakwanaonJuly 25, 2019
2) Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality without Religion, by Sam Harris. An amazing masterpiece on a rational approach to meditation.
3) Coming to our senses, by Jon-Kabat Zinn. A collection of essays which delve into the urgency of understanding oneself in the present moment & the case for contemplative life.
wenzel123onApr 4, 2019
- Get some exercise, this might also help you make new friends. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/26978184/
- Eat healthy foods. There is growing evidence of a relationship between gut microbial metabolism and mental health. https://www.nature.com/articles/s41564-018-0337-x https://www.nature.com/news/the-tantalizing-links-between-gu...
This will take some time.
If you still feel crushed by your job then think about doing something else. You're still very young, you have lots of options.
If you have the time, read some books to gain perspective, to widen your horizon. Use what works for you. Examples:
- Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink
- Twelve Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson
- Waking Up by Sam Harris
Or listen to some podcasts, e.g., Joe Rogan has vastly different people on his show. You can get a lot of ideas from them.
caleb-allenonNov 21, 2019
I think the book Waking Up by Sam Harris gave me what I needed to take a step in trusting my own subjective experience. And realizing that there is knowledge and wisdom that science has not enveloped. And that that is okay--it doesn't mean it's out of reach for science, just not there yet.
My two cents.
wodenokotoonApr 15, 2018
While I enjoyed reading it and it helped me make sense of a lot of things related to meditation, mindfulness and spirituality in general, I can't say I felt every other sentence was highlight worthy.
The chapter on spiritual frauds was however very enloghtening.
maroonblazeronJuly 1, 2019
Meditation is much more than simply clearing your mind or practicing letting go of your thoughts, although those are certainly benefits. It's about completely re-orienting yourself with respect to your relationship with the world and, most importantly, other people.
anonporridgeonApr 15, 2021
In it, he talks about how his early experiences with psychedelics turned him on to the fact there was something real worth pursuing in meditation and mindfulness beyond the superstitious bullshit. Most of the book is about using meditation as a tool for spirituality without religious baggage or supernatural explanations.
The way he and others talk about it, is that psychedelics effectively force any mind into an objectively different state of consciousness. Even though it doesn't last long and the memory of it fades, just the awareness that radical mind shifts are possible is enough to help people take mindfulness practice seriously.
wpietrionSep 22, 2014
You might also check out Sam Harris's latest book. A noted atheist, he's recently written a book called, "Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion". I haven't read it, but I heard him on the radio last night, and it sounds like it is aimed squarely at your concern.
MichaelGGonApr 15, 2018
It has helped me attain the deepest level of meditative state, where I am almost aware of my consciousness as a separate process from the constant sensory input. Becoming an observer, empty-head.
On another level, I've found it very settling in times of emotional turmoil.
I did have a near panic attack from the book when he makes somewhat of a case that both hemispheres of our brains might be independently conscious, with one permanently silenced as control of the body is held by the active one that controls our body. A prisoner in someone else's body, literally, with no way to interact with the world. It is pure physiological horror. But alas I cannot do anything about (other than try to talk to that other entity and see if it can trigger some sort of response?) so no use getting worked up? The world is full of day-to-day cruelty and it's not my fault.
kashyapconDec 25, 2016
David Deutsch[1][2]; Paul Bloom[3] -- he has two other episodes, too; Stuart Russell[4]; David Chalmers[5]; William MacAskill[6]; and Douglas Murray[7].
[1] https://soundcloud.com/samharrisorg/surviving-the-cosmos
[2] https://soundcloud.com/samharrisorg/52-finding-our-way-in-th...
[3] https://soundcloud.com/samharrisorg/56-abusing-dolores-a-con...
[4] https://soundcloud.com/samharrisorg/the-dawn-of-artificial-
intelligence
[5] https://soundcloud.com/samharrisorg/david-chalmers
[6] https://soundcloud.com/samharrisorg/being-good-and-doing-goo...
[7] https://soundcloud.com/samharrisorg/on-the-maintenance-of-ci...
rodjomaticonFeb 3, 2018
cyphergonMay 11, 2018
teamwork007onDec 28, 2019
As for as books from the past decade go David Brooks' The Road to Character was pretty good. His follow-up The Second Mountain would have been better if he didn't recycle so much from the previous work. Sam Harris' Waking Up was pretty eye opening as Harris is a very lucid thinker.
ausername_ohhaionDec 9, 2014
83457onNov 18, 2018
kup0onOct 5, 2018
I do have a passing interest in Buddhism (but not as an adherent, though I do meditate, read about, and appreciate some of it) though both Buddhism and the better forms of Christianity I still don't think are for me (nor is any organized religion) but I can appreciate parts of them from a distance and those that are still adherents, if their actions follow positive paths from them. I think I've matured since my journey out of the faith began, so it's easier now to be a bit more measured (yet still firm) in my rejection of it.
thisisbriansonMay 12, 2020
Sam is a neuroscientist and meditation devotee who offers a cunning and life-altering exposé on the mysteries around consciousness and the investigations and learnings therein. One mind-bender from the book: some people have undergone a procedure to separate the left and right sides of the brain as treatment for rare disease. Following this procedure, the left and right sides can independently answer questions (sometimes simultaneously) posed by researchers, frequently offering conflicting answers. Interestingly, the right brain alone cannot speak but can answer questions by drawing or choosing letters/cards. Thus, it would appear that following the procedure, each side of the brain is conscious, yet unaware of the consciousness inside the other side.
bumbyonJuly 13, 2021
"Confession of a Buddhist Atheist" by Stephon Batchelor. Useful to me for understanding the cultural context of Buddhism.
Insight Meditation by Joseph Goldstein. I just find Goldstein's style the easiest to comprehend in a field that often comes across as frustratingly esoteric
Wherever You Go There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn. I thought this book is interesting because it draws parallels to Western authors, particularly Thoreau.
Sam Harris's "Waking Up" app may also be worth a listen. Besides the actual mindfulness practice, there are a lot of discussions on theory and he has conversations with a variety of people that come to the topic from different perspectives.
joekrillonAug 30, 2017
If you're trying to find "mindfulness hacks" I think you'd probably be missing the point.
There's plenty of "non-hippie" books out there on the subject these days... Waking Up by Sam Harris and 10% Happier by Dan Harris come to mind.
curun1ronJuly 22, 2021
Sam Harris has a lengthy discussion about this separation in "Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion" where he looks at what we've learned from patients who've undergone a corpus callosum surgery. The TL;DR of that surgery is that it's done on people with severe seizures to sever the two hemispheres of the brain to minimize the seizures. But it also tends to (gross over-simplification incoming) create two distinct personalities in the same person, so Harris looks at essentially what gets doubled as elements that cannot be part of the self.
A lot of the rest of the book also deals with the nature of self as revealed through meditative practice and drug use. It's a somewhat tedious read, but it's really fascinating stuff.