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The Way of Zen
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How Will You Measure Your Life?
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The Culture Map: Breaking Through the Invisible Boundaries of Global Business
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The ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results
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What Every Body Is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-Reading People
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How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
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The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living
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Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less
Greg McKeown and Random House Audio
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This Is Water: Some Thoughts, Delivered on a Significant Occasion, about Living a Compassionate Life
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33 Strategies of War
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Steal Like an Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being Creative
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Dreamland: The True Tale of America's Opiate Epidemic
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The Gift of Fear
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nedwinonJune 3, 2016
I would recommend the book "essentialism".
You can't do it all. You need to define what is the most important things and avoid everything else. This is how you get balance and reduce stress.
HNLurker2onMay 16, 2019
rasta78onMay 3, 2020
I would recommend reading some books on this topic for ex: Essentialism, The power of habit. In general, this comes from a lack of priority so use the Eisenhower Matrix to establish that priority and make the conscious decision to do the one thing which is most important.
juddlyononDec 28, 2019
Deep Work - Cal Newport
Value-Based Fees - Alan Weiss
Technology Strategy Patterns - Eben Hewitt
The Road Less Stupid - Keith J Cunningham
The Business of Expertise - David C Baker
Atomic Habits - James Clear
mishftwonMay 24, 2020
awaxman11onNov 12, 2018
There are exceptions, Ray Dalio being a recent good example. But I think he is more the exception, not the rule.
Below is a related passage from Essentialism that touches upon this dynamic:
"Jim Collins, the author of the business classic Good to Great, was once told by Peter Drucker that he could either build a great company or build great ideas but not both. Jim chose ideas. As a result of this trade-off there are still only three full-time employees in his company, yet his ideas have reached tens of millions of people through his writing."
McKeown, Greg. Essentialism (p. 55)
rgloveronJuly 30, 2014
tustlemonOct 2, 2014
Deep Survival: Who Lives, Who Dies, and Why by Laurence Gonzales (This was a great read),
The Painter by Peter Heller (Interesting novel),
Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown (Good ideas and content, repeats a lot)
Currently reading:
The Intelligent Investor by Benjamin Graham,
A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy by William Irvine,
Into Thin Air by Jon Krakauer
Edit: reformatted for clarity.
fmaonApr 1, 2019
I'm only through the first chapter. Might be a good read, but harder to implement. So far it's, you gotta say no to things that aren't important. How often has your boss asked you to do unimportant things, and would you be able to say no to any of them? Maybe try to push it off to someone else... But to say no would be harder.
fernandokokochaonMar 18, 2019
I will be advocating GTD. It doesn't only give you the framework. Once you're done with the basics, it also allows you to make clearer decisions. A nice quote (self-translated, I wasn't reading in English): When the boat sinks, you don’t think about its course.
"Essentialism" is another classic in the subject, more disciplined in rejecting unnecessary stuff, complementary to GTD in terms of your concerns.
gk1onDec 22, 2016
Crime and Punishment by Dostoevsky - I went back to Dostoevsky because I needed a break from business books... Something to distract me from work in the evenings. Dostoevsky's overly descriptive narrative does a great job of transporting my mind to 19th-century Russia and far, far from my work and other present-day concerns.
Essentialism by Greg McKeown, and Deep Work by Cal Newport - Pairing them together because they both reminded me the same important lessons: 1) Do fewer things and do them better, 2) Being overly busy is not a sign of success.
rkhoonDec 23, 2018
The book talks about how minimalism isn't about ridding yourself of everything but your bare necessities, but to discard things that you don't love so that you can better focus on the remaining things that are important to you. If you've read The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, this point will resonate with you quite well.
I've since whittled down my wardrobe significantly, throwing out a large chunk of shirts/pants/sweaters that I haven't worn in over a year and it's actually done wonders for my health. I discovered that my bedroom had been left in neglect for a long time now, which had caused a bit of mold to grow (which in turn had given me allergy issues for the past couple months) and having to go through my clothes helped me both physically and mentally.
Another book that touches on these themes is Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown.
Maybe in 2019 I'll finally get to a point where I don't have to pack dozens and dozens of boxes when I inevitably move again.
muhblahonJuly 26, 2017
- The Undercover Economist by Tim Harford
as17237onJuly 11, 2016
* Confidence Men By Ros Suskind
* Dark Money by Jane Meyer
* Better by Atul Gawande
* The Checklist Manifesto by Atul Gawande
* Essentialism by Greg Mckeown
* Contagious by Jonah Berger
* Sapiens by Yuval Harari
* The Pentagons Brain by Annie Jacobson
* Shoe Dog by Phil Knight
* The Only Game in town by Mohamed El-Erian
* The Industries of Future By Alec Ross
LrnByTeachonSep 2, 2017
> Snowball (Warren Buffet), Andrew Carnegie and Rockefeller biographies - for understanding the mental mindset to win in business (it's not what you think)
> Hackers and painters - for understanding startups and how/why they work
> Essentialism, the disciplined pursuit of less and Walden - for understanding how "stuff" gets in the way of happiness
opticnerveonJan 16, 2021
acangianoonJan 2, 2018
- Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less
- Turing's Cathedral: The Origins of the Digital Universe
- The Big Fat Surprise: Why Butter, Meat and Cheese Belong in a Healthy Diet
- Do I Make Myself Clear? Why Writing Well Matters
- This Is How: Proven Aid in Overcoming Shyness, Molestation, Fatness, Spinsterhood, Grief, Disease, Lushery, Decrepitude & More. For Young and Old Alike
- A Life in Parts
- Zero to One: Notes on Startups, or How to Build the Future
- Triggers: Creating Behavior That Lasts--Becoming the Person You Want to Be
- The Power of the Other: The startling effect other people have on you, from the boardroom to the bedroom and beyond-and what to do about it
- The Attention Merchants: The Epic Scramble to Get Inside Our Heads
- The Compassionate Achiever: How Helping Others Fuels Success
- The Now Habit: A Strategic Program for Overcoming Procrastination and Enjoying Guilt-Free Play