
Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ
Daniel Goleman
4.6 on Amazon
21 HN comments

Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard
Chip Heath and Dan Heath
4.6 on Amazon
21 HN comments

The Way of Zen
Alan Watts
4.7 on Amazon
21 HN comments

How Will You Measure Your Life?
Clayton M. Christensen, James Allworth, et al.
4.6 on Amazon
20 HN comments

The Culture Map: Breaking Through the Invisible Boundaries of Global Business
Erin Meyer
4.7 on Amazon
19 HN comments

The ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results
Gary Keller, Jay Papasan, et al.
4.7 on Amazon
18 HN comments

What Every Body Is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-Reading People
Joe Navarro and Marvin Karlins
4.6 on Amazon
17 HN comments

How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
Leil Lowndes, Joyce Bean, et al.
4.5 on Amazon
17 HN comments

The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living
Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman
4.8 on Amazon
17 HN comments

Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less
Greg McKeown and Random House Audio
4.6 on Amazon
17 HN comments

This Is Water: Some Thoughts, Delivered on a Significant Occasion, about Living a Compassionate Life
David Foster Wallace
4.6 on Amazon
17 HN comments

33 Strategies of War
Robert Greene, Donald Coren, et al.
4.8 on Amazon
17 HN comments

Steal Like an Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being Creative
Austin Kleon
4.7 on Amazon
17 HN comments

Dreamland: The True Tale of America's Opiate Epidemic
Sam Quinones
4.6 on Amazon
16 HN comments

The Gift of Fear
Gavin de Becker
4.7 on Amazon
16 HN comments
foamclutchingonFeb 25, 2019
Thank you for your book recommendations.
bobfonSep 7, 2010
rohindaswanionDec 23, 2018
Switch, How to change things when change is hard - Chip Heath & Dan Heath
vwellingonApr 26, 2016
How to Change Things When Change Is Hard" by Chip and Dan Heath is a highly recommended read. It'll tell you all about the story, or as they call it: the elephant.
edkennedyonJune 16, 2010
ReallynowonSep 28, 2013
lpolovetsonNov 25, 2011
- Simple Heuristics That Make Use Smart by Gigerenzer, et al. (http://www.amazon.com/Simple-Heuristics-That-Make-Smart/dp/0...). I have heard good things about this book but have not read it yet.
Category 2:
- Think Twice by Mauboussin (http://www.amazon.com/Think-Twice-Harnessing-Power-Counterin...)
- Influence by Cialdini (http://www.amazon.com/Influence-Psychology-Persuasion-Busine...)
Category 3:
- You already mentioned Michalko, but his other book, Thinkertoys, is also very good (http://www.amazon.com/Thinkertoys-Handbook-Creative-Thinking...)
Category 5:
- Switch by the Heath brothers is excellent (http://www.amazon.com/Switch-Change-Things-When-Hard/dp/0385...)
TheSOB88onAug 31, 2010
It sounds like the underachievers want to be good employees, but you have to figure out how to get them in that direction.
pitchupsonJune 10, 2011
- Where Good Ideas Come From: The Natural History of Innovation by Steven Johnson
- The Upside of Irrationality: The Unexpected Benefits of Defying Logic at Work and at Home by Dan Ariely
- Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard by Chip Heath, Dan Heath
rscaleonMay 24, 2012
ecarononJuly 21, 2011
Books like Switch and Made to Stick now go first on my "new coders should read this book" list, and I dont expect that trend to stop.
brdonNov 20, 2013
As for building up will power, I've found that distance running is an excellent way to hone your determination. Distance running is essentially the act of pushing yourself when you want to quit.
There are plenty of books on the subject if you'd like to study up on it more. Thinking Fast and Slow, Drive, Switch are all good books on the subject that immediately come to mind.
kthejoker2onJan 10, 2021
And then review your progress at some velocity that makes sense (weekly for some, monthly for others, quarterly or thereabouts for the rest) to see if you're on track, if your objectives have changed, etc.
But the book Switch by Chip and Dan Heath kind of opened my eyes to the danger of "SMART goals" / self-motivation. They talk about the "rider" (your rational, critical inner voice) and the "elephant" (your emotional id-like creature) and how you have to get both working, and OKRs and the like satisfy the rider but don't reach the elephant.
They recommend for example drawing up a "concept poster" or postcard (similar to Amazon's "future newsletter" touting the success of a proposed initiative) to really get alignment on what will get you excited to do the good things you want - health, wealth, family, community, planet, whatever - without having to prescribe it to a chart or metric.
exanimo_saionJune 17, 2020
For the first part I always refer to the concept of the elephant driver as a reminder.
"NYU psychologist Jonathan Haidt uses a lovely analogy to explain both: the emotional side is the elephant, the rational side is the rider. The rider of the elephant looks like he or she is in charge, but when there’s a disagreement between the elephant and the rider, the elephant usually wins.
Chip and Dan Heath's superb book, Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard, builds on this analogy and talks about directing the rider (rational brain: responsible for planning and direction, but can get paralyzed overthinking things) and motivating the elephant (emotional brain: prefers quick gratification over long term, but gets things done). Numerous experiments show that the rider can get exhausted trying to motivate the elephant and needs time to recover. This is why, if you’re trying to eat healthily while on the road, you tend to make bad choices at the end of a long day and opt for that extra glass of beer."
For the second part use mobile apps/smart watch to help you build habits. Being an unashamed apple user I rely on streaks to be my habit builder but there are many similar applicatons out there. Gamify your own life. Because at the end of the day life is a game. And if you want to get to the next level you have to play it.
barikonJune 10, 2012
What has worked is coupling the task with the next immediate action. Depending on the level of procrastination, this next immediate action does not have to be a grand vision. It is often as simplistic as "open the lid to your laptop", then, "open a text editor", then "think of the file you need to edit", then "type hello world three times" (just to get me to start writing __something__). Passing that initial hurdle usually gets me to the desired state of flow.
Similarly, I now have the following written at the top of my TODO list at all times: "Direct the Rider. Motivate the Elephant. Shape the Path." This psychology comes from Switch by Dan Heath and Chip Heath, and it's hugely impacted my outlook on work, especially as a researcher.
pyronicideonMar 29, 2010
Behavioral Economics:
Economics:
Psychology:
Management:
liquidcoolonFeb 6, 2019
This explains so much of human behavior, but I hesitate to recommend it to people because it is so easily weaponized. To borrow from Harry Potter, it's the closest thing I've seen to a book of charm spells, but was written as a defense against the dark arts. Better everyone read it rather than just the marketers.
What I really love about this book is how much of politics it has explained for me, including the downfall of the USSR and the American civil rights movements, but also newer events like Schwarzenegger's poltiical career.
If you like this, I'd also recommend:
"Thinking, Fast and Slow" by Daniel Kahneman
"Predictably Irrational" by Dan Ariely
"The Power of Habit" by Charles Duhigg
All are in a similar vein. For more focused book on human behavior, I recommend first time team leads/managers read:
"Switch" by Dan and Chip Heath
A solid guide to changing organizational behavior.
jsankeyonSep 24, 2010
- Pros and Cons: when I have too many answers, I try to make it objective by drawing up the pros and cons and seeing where that takes me.
- Simplify: like a lot of developers, I can be prone to over-analyse when I am stuck on an issue for a while. So I remind myself to try simplifying the problem. Often by dropping a layer of flexibility the problem is a lot easier to solve. If I really need the flexibility, I can add it later when I have greater understanding.
- Take a Break: sometimes I’m just trying too hard, and need to step back. I work from home, so a short walk outside is a welcome break. Actually getting away from the computer relaxes the grey matter. The vitamin D doesn’t hurt either.
- Explain the Problem: very often I find that while I’m explaining the problem, I see it in a different way. If not, the input of another person usually throws a different perspective on the issue. If there’s nobody to bother immediately, just writing down an explanation can help.
- Switch Gears: this works when I’m getting frustrated by a lack of progress. By switching to a small, unrelated task, I can Get Something Done and develop some new momentum. This also serves as a break from the original problem.
- Write Some Tests: I don’t practice TDD all the time, but when I’m stuck trying to understand how things work, writing some tests first can be very illuminating. Having tests in place also gives gratifying feedback as I finally start to crack the underlying problem. I find this works best for really tough technical issues, where good test coverage is even more important than normal.
- Write Some Code: if I have a partial solution, even if I know it is ugly or inadequate, sometimes I’ll just plow ahead anyway. Actually working through a throwaway implementation is better than standing still, as it turns up all the little details. I’m happy to throw that code away since I know the alternative was not getting anywhere.
liquidcoolonApr 8, 2016
How is DevOps? Is there room for improvement or learning there?
If you are going to switch companies because you see no way to fix things, how did you interview those teams to ensure they don't have similar problems?
aj__onJuly 28, 2015
1. Thinking Fast and Slow - Daniel Kahneman. If you're going to read one, read this. A lot of theory undergirding how people think. Decision making by people will make a lot more sense after this.
2. Influence - Robert Cialdani. Less theory and more pragmatic advice on how to influence people.
3. Drive - Daniel Pink, Switch - Chip Heath, Made to Stick - Chip Heath, Predictably Irrational - Dan Ariely. Books on specific sub-categories. More pop-psych. Information density is less, but easier to read.
4. Poor Charlie's Almanac - Charlie Munger. Best known as Warren Buffett's partner, this book is a collection of his speeches, letters, etc... You get an idea of how he thinks but, but you have to dig through the repetitive ramble to get it. Think of it as Charlie observing a lot of the prior principles but putting it into a real life/business context.
siglesiasonAug 26, 2010
Here's another example, cited in the design and creation of the Palm Pilot:
"Jeff Hawkins, the team leader, wanted the Palm Pilot to be simple. It would handle only four things: calendars, contacts, memos, and task lists, but it would do them well. Hawkins fought feature creep by carrying around a wooden block the size of the Palm. Hawkins would pull out the wooden block to "take notes" during a meeting or "check his calendar" in the hallway. When someone would suggest another feature, Hawkins would pull out the wooden block and ask them where it would fit. Hawkins knew that the core idea of his project needed to be elegance and simplicity. In sharing this core idea, Hawkins and his team used what was, in essence, a visual proverb. The block of wood became a visual reminder to do a few things and do them well."
taken from http://www.gsb.stanford.edu/news/bmag/sbsm0702/feature_ideas...