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4.6 on Amazon
21 HN comments

Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard
Chip Heath and Dan Heath
4.6 on Amazon
21 HN comments

The Way of Zen
Alan Watts
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21 HN comments

How Will You Measure Your Life?
Clayton M. Christensen, James Allworth, et al.
4.6 on Amazon
20 HN comments

The Culture Map: Breaking Through the Invisible Boundaries of Global Business
Erin Meyer
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19 HN comments

The ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results
Gary Keller, Jay Papasan, et al.
4.7 on Amazon
18 HN comments

What Every Body Is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-Reading People
Joe Navarro and Marvin Karlins
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17 HN comments

How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
Leil Lowndes, Joyce Bean, et al.
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The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living
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Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less
Greg McKeown and Random House Audio
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This Is Water: Some Thoughts, Delivered on a Significant Occasion, about Living a Compassionate Life
David Foster Wallace
4.6 on Amazon
17 HN comments

33 Strategies of War
Robert Greene, Donald Coren, et al.
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17 HN comments

Steal Like an Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being Creative
Austin Kleon
4.7 on Amazon
17 HN comments

Dreamland: The True Tale of America's Opiate Epidemic
Sam Quinones
4.6 on Amazon
16 HN comments

The Gift of Fear
Gavin de Becker
4.7 on Amazon
16 HN comments
addydevonDec 26, 2014
renewiltordonMar 20, 2021
Perfectly captures the philosophy, very short, and recommended by many.
arjieonOct 20, 2016
armaansarkaronFeb 3, 2014
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OrbitRockonFeb 22, 2021
I think the book Steal Like an Artist addresses this.
joshuxonAug 10, 2018
There's a less know book written by him:
Weinberg on Writing: The Fieldstone Method
It's the only book I've found that teaches you how to steal like an writer, which the book Steal Like an Artist advocates but doesn't get into how to actually do it.
tedmistononSep 20, 2015
Austin Kleon (the author of Steal Like an Artist, and Show Your Work!) talks about reading obituaries every morning as a tool to help clarify priorities and to remind yourself that interesting people often led non-linear lives.
https://www.brainpickings.org/2014/03/12/austin-kleon-show-y...
moron4hireonJune 25, 2014
There are entire books on this subject. Austin Kleon's "Steal Like an Artist" is perhaps the most engaging one right now. Get it. Read it. Quit putting "ideas" on a pedestal.
yesenadamonDec 3, 2019
When I was a jazz musician in my early 20s, I did a lot of negative self-talk on gigs. "Oh, that was awful! Oh yuk, Argghh that sux. Nooo...Terrible" etc. It made me sound terrible. Self-torture. Then I read a book Effortless Mastery, from which I learnt Never criticize yourself on gigs. The time for that is when you practise. And since then I never do that. I just enjoy myself and play. It really changed my life. And also learning about loving yourself - realizing that it's all too easy to be careful about treating other people well, always being kind, while being extremely mean to yourself. Louise Hay's How to Love Yourself is the book on that subject, I think.
elliusonDec 17, 2017
Austin Kleon puts this especially well in “Steal Like An Artist.” He says that you can cut off some of your passions, and try to focus on one thing, but eventually you will “feel the pain of the phantom limb.”
gregsadetskyonJan 22, 2019
When looking for a solution, is the path straight? Or is it curvy, full of alternatives that appear strange at first? Staying with the strangeness is part of the unlearning. :)
Take a look at these cards[0] for their fun (and creative!) prompts to look at problems (and the world?) differently. To look in different places, in different ways. To juxtapose and separate.
Take a look at some books (typically grouped under “creativity” on amazon), such as “The Artist’s Way”, or “Steal like an Artist”. “Bird by Bird” is another book I’ve enjoyed.
Some things/tricks/ideas/perspectives will click while others won’t. It’s ok to pick a path. Some tricks will work best at one time or another. That’s also fine — part of the unlearning is accepting that too.
Best of luck and feel free to reach out!
[0] https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oblique_Strategies
achariamonJuly 1, 2017
The first step of awareness means you're on the right track. You've also developed a sense of taste because you've recognized something is distinctly better than the other. Ira Glass has a great way of framing this concept [https://vimeo.com/85040589]. You can close this gap of ability vs taste by continuing what you're doing. If it feels confusing and difficult, you're making progress. It will take a while to constantly probe at the "why" something is better. Next you'll learn how to apply it.
If time is a constraint there's a way you can accelerate your learning. You'll have to ask someone who is better than you for feedback and advice. This works really well. If you have the resources and don't feel the need to learn, you can always pay someone to do it.
There's a lot more I can go on about but feel free to reach out if you need some help. Here's some additional random thoughts:
- Don't get too caught up in the design and elegance of your front end design. Show it to people, they will help guide what you need to work on.
- It's okay if things look like a copy of something else. We can learn a lot through imitation.
- Pay attention to software you love and really try and understand why you love it. (Sounds like you're doing this already)
- Check out these books: Steal like and artist, the design of everyday things.
- Read through Apples's HIG docs, there's lot of great stuff there on mobile and app design.
- Empathy is a critical tool when making interfaces for others. Really try to understand the problem you're trying to solve by getting in the minds of the user. Usually the solution comes pretty naturally.
- By exposing yourself to lots of different kinds of software and apps you'll start developing a sense of what works where. Like when do I use a slider vs a numerical input.
nateonFeb 29, 2012
"this very real thing that runs rampant in educated people. It’s called 'impostor syndrome.' The clinical definition is a 'psychological phenomenon in which people are unable to internalize their accomplishments.' It means that you feel like a phony, like you’re just winging it, that you really don’t have any idea what you’re doing."
- Kleon, Austin (2012-02-28). Steal Like an Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being Creative
aniroonJune 22, 2014
Steal Like an Artist by Austin Kleon
http://austinkleon.com/2011/03/30/how-to-steal-like-an-artis...
elliusonSep 3, 2017
• The Rise and Fall of the Third Reich
• The Lean Startup
• Poke the Box
• The Elements of Computing Systems
• The Death of Common Sense
• Up the Organization
• The Personal MBA
• The Wisdom of No-Escape
• The Adapted Mind
• Brain Rules
• Getting Things Done
• On Writing
• Steal Like An Artist
• George Orwell: A Collection of Essays
And these are technically not books, but Glenn Greenwald's "Speech to the Massachusetts ACLU" and the Christopher Hitchens speech criticizing the proposed Canadian hate speech law.