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6 HN comments

Cracking the Coding Interview: 189 Programming Questions and Solutions
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6 HN comments

Working in Public: The Making and Maintenance of Open Source Software
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The Manager's Path: A Guide for Tech Leaders Navigating Growth and Change
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6 HN comments

Open: An Autobiography
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6 HN comments

Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In
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6 HN comments

Lonesome Dove: A Novel
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4.8 on Amazon
6 HN comments

The Mind Illuminated: A Complete Meditation Guide Integrating Buddhist Wisdom and Brain Science for Greater Mindfulness
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5 HN comments

The Visual Display of Quantitative Information
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5 HN comments

The Challenger Sale: Taking Control of the Customer Conversation
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5 HN comments

Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know About the People We Don't Know
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4.5 on Amazon
5 HN comments

Ready Player One
Ernest Cline, Wil Wheaton, et al.
4.7 on Amazon
5 HN comments

Lolita
Vladimir Nabokov
4.3 on Amazon
5 HN comments

The Innovator's Dilemma: When New Technologies Cause Great Firms to Fail
Clayton M. Christensen, L.J. Ganser, et al.
4.5 on Amazon
5 HN comments

Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything
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4.7 on Amazon
5 HN comments
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mordechai9000onMar 20, 2021
I slogged through it the first time, and didn't particularly enjoy it. All I remember from the first reading is that HH seemed kind of icky. I was barely older than Delores was in the first half of the novel, and I didn't really understand all the implications. I probably skimmed a great deal of the book without paying attention to it. Much of the subtlety of the story and all of the brilliant writing went right over my head.
Then I happened to pick up The Fued, about the friendship and subsequent falling out between Nabakov and Edmund Wilson. It mentioned several times that Lolita was a runaway success, and it made Nabakov famous.
I thought there must be something more to Lolita than I remembered, so I picked up a copy at the library. It was a whole different book. This time, I found the story both riveting and disturbing. On the first read, I knew that what he was doing would be called abuse, but I didn't really understand how he took advantage of her trust and naivety and adolescent rebelliousness. Or how awful it is to dehumanize pre teen girls and characterize them as sexual objects called nymphets.
HH claims to know that he took something irreplaceable from her and ruined her childhood. But - and I think this is why they say he is an unreliable narrator - it's not clear if he really believes what he's saying, or if it's a calculated ploy to garner sympathy.
The writing is incredible. The story is troubling and fascinating, and stayed in my mind a long time after. RIP Delores Schiller.
prennertonMar 20, 2021
Why this comment? If you don't know, please check out the fantastic Conversations with Tyler podcast. And if you are looking for a very diverse, entertaining and informative podcast, try it.
Also the "Complete Review". Wow what a website! Proper 90s feel and still delivering value. If you think Lolita is one of the best books to read, you are probably having a similar taste and the reviews might work for you.
[1] https://www.complete-review.com/reviews/nabokovv/lolita1.htm
[2] https://conversationswithtyler.com/episodes/
JohnBootyonMar 23, 2021
You're presenting "great" and "pop cultural humorist" as mutually exclusive terms.
It feels fundamentally incorrect to compare him to writers producing conspicuously deeper and denser stuff.
If you judge him by standards and goals to which he never aspired then I'd agree he comes up awfully short.
Reminds me of the old days when people derided the Beatles and other rock and roll acts because they didn't meet the standards of classical music. Or when people derided e.g. Shigeru Miyamoto because video games didn't measure up to the narrative achievements seen in the best movies.
It's true: The Godfather and Super Mario Brothers are both things that appear on your television screen. Just like Hitchiker's Guide To The Galaxy and Lolita and Finnegan's Wake are all books. Not sure they're trying to be the same thing, though.