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Karma: A Yogi's Guide to Crafting Your Destiny

Sadhguru

4.9 on Amazon

2 HN comments

Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems: New, Revised, and Expanded Edition

Richard Ferber

4.6 on Amazon

2 HN comments

The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind

Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson

4.8 on Amazon

2 HN comments

The Secret Lives of Color

Kassia St Clair

4.7 on Amazon

2 HN comments

The Parasitic Mind: How Infectious Ideas Are Killing Common Sense

Gad Saad

4.8 on Amazon

2 HN comments

ADHD 2.0: New Science and Essential Strategies for Thriving with Distraction--from Childhood through Adulthood

Edward M. Hallowell M.D. and John J. Ratey M.D.

4.8 on Amazon

2 HN comments

Speed of Trust: The One Thing That Changes Everything

Stephen M .R. Covey , Stephen R. Covey, et al.

4.6 on Amazon

2 HN comments

Connect: Building Exceptional Relationships with Family, Friends, and Colleagues

David Bradford Ph.D. and Carole Robin Ph.D.

4.7 on Amazon

2 HN comments

QBQ! The Question Behind the Question: Practicing Personal Accountability at Work and in Life

John G. Miller

4.6 on Amazon

2 HN comments

Light on Yoga: The Bible of Modern Yoga

B. K. S. Iyengar and Yehudi Menuhin

4.7 on Amazon

2 HN comments

On Becoming Baby Wise: Giving Your Infant the Gift of Nighttime Sleep

Robert Bucknam M.D. and Gary Ezzo

4.5 on Amazon

2 HN comments

Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear

Elizabeth Gilbert

4.6 on Amazon

1 HN comments

Smart but Scattered: The Revolutionary "Executive Skills" Approach to Helping Kids Reach Their Potential

Peg Dawson and Richard Guare

4.7 on Amazon

1 HN comments

Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria?: And Other Conversations About Race

Beverly Daniel Tatum

4.8 on Amazon

1 HN comments

Guts

Raina Telgemeier

4.8 on Amazon

1 HN comments

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redelbeeonDec 16, 2020

I just finished reading “Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear” by Elizabeth Gilbert (of Eat, Pray, Love fame) and she brought up a related and interesting idea I can paraphrase:

In midlife we’re concerned with status and our outward appearance, which can hinder creative output. Then we get older and realize that we don’t care what anyone thinks about us, which can lead to more creative risk taking and accomplishments. Then we get even older and we find the truth: nobody is thinking about you (except you) so it’s not worth concerning yourself with status or outside validation.

In the midst of my own midlife crisis in the making I often find myself coming back to these types of concerns: How do I look to others? How do I compare to others? What am I missing out on?

Thankfully I’ve been able to, so far at least, keep any real crisis similar to what’s described in the article or otherwise from occurring. I try to remind myself of what Gilbert explained, that no one really cares about me so I should live my life without worrying to much about what they think.

I read a lot of books about creativity and most aren’t great, but I think “Big Magic” is a decent read. I also enjoyed the audiobook of “Creative Quest” by Questlove.

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