
Outliers: The Story of Success
Malcolm Gladwell
4.7 on Amazon
3 HN comments

A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy
William B. Irvine
4.6 on Amazon
3 HN comments

Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion
Sam Harris and Simon & Schuster Audio
4.4 on Amazon
3 HN comments

Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life
Nir Eyal, Julie Li, et al.
4.6 on Amazon
3 HN comments

The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever
Michael Bungay Stanier
4.6 on Amazon
2 HN comments

Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, Revised Edition
Robert B. Cialdini
4.6 on Amazon
2 HN comments

Emotional Intelligence 2.0
Travis Bradberry , Jean Greaves , et al.
4.5 on Amazon
2 HN comments

Think and Grow Rich: The Landmark Bestseller Now Revised and Updated for the 21st Century (Think and Grow Rich Series)
Napoleon Hill and Arthur R. Pell
4.7 on Amazon
2 HN comments

12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
Jordan B. Peterson, Norman Doidge MD - foreword, et al.
4.7 on Amazon
2 HN comments

The 48 Laws of Power
Robert Greene
4.7 on Amazon
2 HN comments

The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment
Eckhart Tolle
4.7 on Amazon
2 HN comments

Be Here Now
Ram Dass
4.7 on Amazon
2 HN comments

Surrounded by Idiots
Thomas Erikson
4.5 on Amazon
2 HN comments

The Way of Zen
Alan Watts
4.7 on Amazon
2 HN comments

Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us
Daniel H. Pink
4.5 on Amazon
2 HN comments
okareamanonJuly 8, 2021
> there is an entire book industry that is focused on the premise that you are merely one good idea away from the future
Many famous people started out with one good idea
> The entire business-focused self-help industry is built on the fallacy that successful people read a lot of books
Many famous successful people promote the face that they read a lot of books, such as Bill Gates and Barack Obama. It's not a fallacy.
There's a lot of junk self help books to wade through, but I have found some jewels among the trash and by jewels I mean they were just right for the situation and age I was at.
Edit: I put together a list off the top of my head of self help books I found useful (again, at the age I was at)
I'm OK – You're OK, guide to transactional analysis by Thomas Harris
Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships by Eric Berne
Trances We Live by Stephen Wolinsky
Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
Zen and the Art of Leadership by Thomas Cleary
cl42onJuly 8, 2021
Heck, I think if I read it 10 years ago I wouldn't even have the emotional maturity to appreciate it. There's a beauty to some of these books --- some of the ideas seem obvious and can easily be written off until you have the emotional wherewithal and maturity to appreciate the difficulty of what they are suggesting.
"Think and Grow Rich" is a good example. What do you mean... I just have to write a vision for myself that I believe I can achieve, and read it twice a day? Sounds stupid.
... and then you realize how difficult it is for people to truly come up with a vision statement for their success that they legitimately believe they can achieve within a specific time frame... And that doing this correctly is the hard part.
Brilliant.