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Remember: The Science of Memory and the Art of Forgetting
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Dare to Lead: Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts.
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Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
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Alcoholics Anonymous: The Big Book
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Your Brain on Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emerging Science of Addiction
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The Year of Magical Thinking
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Surrounded by Idiots
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abandonlibertyonMay 22, 2021
People love this stuff. Malcolm Gladwell's made a career on it: half of the stuff he writes about is disproven before he publishes. It's very interesting that facial microexpressions analysis can predict relationship outcome with 90% certainty. Except it's just an overfit model, it can't, and he's no longer my favorite author. [0]
Similarly, Thomas Erikson's "Surrounded by Idiots" also lacks validation. [1]
Both authors have been making top 10 lists for years, and Audible's top selling list just reminded me of them.
Similarly, shocking publications in Nature or Science are to be viewed with skepticism.
I don't know what I can read anymore. It's the same with politics. The truth is morally ambiguous, time consuming, complicated, and doesn't sell. I feel powerless against market forces.
[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Gottman#Critiques
[1] https://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:5Z7JiC...
lifebeyondfifeonMay 25, 2021
Diversity is the solution to groupthink. From the book Surrounded By Idiots, the author demonstrates that people with different backgrounds and behaviour models come together to make stronger teams.
As engineers become more senior, they have a hand in design, in product etc. they bring something of themselves to their software solutions. Making software with only a team of white dudes means you miss the mark on issues important outside that group.
Also, inclusion goes hand in hand with diversity. People from all ethnicities and not just cis males can code, but if your team is mainly white guys, you have to work twice as hard convincing others that they'll be welcome and fit right in otherwise it becomes a self perpetuating pattern.
Also, "abilities" is subjective. If your exemplar for software engineer progression is a path that fits a majority white man route into the industry, and plays to the strengths of the people you promote, you'll over-index on those abilities. It's a good question to ask, what skills are we missing out on because our lack of diversity leads us to self selecting?
For transparency, I'm a white cis male manager, who manages a team of almost exclusively white cis males. I'm working on some long term strategic projects to help foster diversity in engineering in my city.
45ureonJan 16, 2020
Erikson e-mailed me (we both shared the same international agent, so we had met briefly once before) and asked whether, given my own profession as a psychologist and my position as a board member of the Swedish Skeptics Society, I would support his claim that he was a ‘behavioural scientist’. I declined to offer such support, despite the fact that from a legal point of view in Sweden, it is possible to call yourself a ‘behavioural scientist’ without any formal qualifications. He has just as much right as my poodle to call himself a behavioural scientist.