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James Baldwin
4.7 on Amazon
2 HN comments

On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous: A Novel
Ocean Vuong
4.5 on Amazon
1 HN comments

Gay Bar: Why We Went Out
Jeremy Atherton Lin
4.4 on Amazon
1 HN comments

Find Me: A Novel
André Aciman
4.5 on Amazon
1 HN comments

Rick
Alex Gino
4.8 on Amazon
1 HN comments

Seven Days: Monday–Sunday
Venio Tachibana and Rihito Takarai
4.9 on Amazon
1 HN comments

Queer: A Graphic History
Dr. Meg-John Barker and Julia Scheele
4.7 on Amazon
1 HN comments

Unconditional: A Guide to Loving and Supporting Your LGBTQ Child (Book for Parents of a Gay or Transgender Child)
Telaina Eriksen
4.6 on Amazon
1 HN comments

Over the Top: A Raw Journey to Self-Love
Jonathan Van Ness and HarperAudio
4.8 on Amazon
1 HN comments

The Garden of Eden
Ernest Hemingway and Charles Scribner Jr.
4.3 on Amazon
1 HN comments

Nevada
Imogen Binnie
4.4 on Amazon
1 HN comments

Luna
Julie Anne Peters
4.4 on Amazon
1 HN comments

Antisocial
Heidi Cullinan
4.6 on Amazon
1 HN comments

Neighbor: comic (Volume 1)
Slashpalooza
4.9 on Amazon
1 HN comments

Ash
Malinda Lo
4.3 on Amazon
1 HN comments
ohjeezonMar 22, 2019
For example, in the mid 90s we went to the Dominican Republic for a week, and we were oh-so-broke. We stayed in a hut (actual hut) behind a friend's house; we borrowed their bikes to go to town to buy groceries (including food items where I had no earthly idea what they were); we cooked on a tiny alcohol camp stove (and when it ran out, we discovered that the alcohol it used was a bottle of rum). We saw nothing that was a tourist destination; it was all "just folks." ...and we got a huge amount of understanding about what it meant to live in a poor country without resources.
I've also stayed in 5-star hotels in Paris and indulged myself for a week falling into every tourist vortex. That's perfectly fine, too, because it's okay to appreciate beauty. However, you appreciate it _better_ when you know its context and history; I highly recommend Rick Steves _Europe Through The Back Door_ because it gives us Americans a better sense of European history, not to mention how it affected art, architecture, etc.
Mind you, Steves' travel guides are rarely my favorites. He's not a foodie, and I regularly choose destinations based on what I can eat. And he's opinionated, which I appreciate, until we disagree on those opinions. (He's meh on the Black Forest, and it's one of my favorite places.) Then again, I'm not his target audience. I think he's a treasure nonetheless.