The Hobbit
J. R. R. Tolkien
4.8 on Amazon
102 HN comments
Animal Farm: 1984
George Orwell and Christopher Hitchens
4.9 on Amazon
101 HN comments
Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap and Others Don't
Jim Collins
4.5 on Amazon
100 HN comments
How to Lie with Statistics
Darrell Huff and Irving Geis
4.5 on Amazon
99 HN comments
A Brief History of Time
Stephen Hawking
4.7 on Amazon
98 HN comments
The Bell Curve: Intelligence and Class Structure in American Life (A Free Press Paperbacks Book)
Richard J. Herrnstein and Charles Murray
4.7 on Amazon
98 HN comments
The Mom Test: How to Talk to Customers & Learn If Your Business Is a Good Idea When Everyone Is Lying to You
Rob Fitzpatrick and Robfitz Ltd
4.7 on Amazon
96 HN comments
Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, Revised Edition
Robert B. Cialdini
4.6 on Amazon
95 HN comments
Man's Search for Meaning
Viktor E. Frankl , William J. Winslade, et al.
4.7 on Amazon
94 HN comments
The Federalist Papers
Alexander Hamilton and James Madison
4.6 on Amazon
93 HN comments
Calculus Made Easy
Silvanus P. Thompson and Martin Gardner
4.5 on Amazon
92 HN comments
The Mind Illuminated: A Complete Meditation Guide Integrating Buddhist Wisdom and Brain Science for Greater Mindfulness
John Yates , Matthew Immergut , et al.
4.7 on Amazon
92 HN comments
Superintelligence: Paths, Dangers, Strategies
Nick Bostrom, Napoleon Ryan, et al.
4.4 on Amazon
90 HN comments
On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft
Stephen King, Joe Hill, et al.
4.8 on Amazon
90 HN comments
Rework
Jason Fried and David Heinemeier Hansson
4.5 on Amazon
90 HN comments
ncphillipsonMar 2, 2018
momentmakeronJuly 5, 2018
amirmconOct 4, 2014
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Influence:_Science_and_Practice
Edit: It's referenced in the article but that link points to Amazon.
dshipperonAug 6, 2011
RBerenguelonOct 16, 2013
CognitrononJune 26, 2017
therockspushonDec 22, 2019
Good book to raise your awareness about how you're being manipulated by sales and marketing.
https://www.influenceatwork.com/principles-of-persuasion/
lowestprimateonFeb 24, 2020
rgrahamonMar 3, 2014
unotionSep 16, 2015
SwellJoeonJune 15, 2009
vidarhonFeb 8, 2021
qeorgeonMay 24, 2013
Thanks!
misiti3780onJan 18, 2016
latortugaonOct 18, 2013
daniel-levinonSep 23, 2013
[0] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Cialdini
koolhead17onFeb 3, 2018
* Meditations by Marcus Aurelius
* Wit and Wisdom from Poor Richard's Almanack by
Benjamin Franklin
* Influence by Robert B. Cialdini
wbeckleronJan 18, 2016
godelmachineonJune 13, 2018
This is a list of important publications in computer science, organized by field.
Some reasons why a particular publication might be regarded as important:
1) Topic creator – A publication that created a new topic
2) Breakthrough – A publication that changed scientific knowledge significantly
3) Influence – A publication which has significantly influenced the world or has had a massive impact on the teaching of computer science.
carlaengonMar 3, 2014
- Moz.com hosts an overwhelming amount of information.
- Made to Stick by Chip and Dan Heath
- UnMarketing by Scott Stratten
- Influence by Robert Cialdini
- Pitch Anything by Oren Klaff
While it's focused on kids, you might find some additional ideas in this article: http://kidscreen.com/2013/08/12/marketing-to-kids-and-famili...
markferonJan 18, 2018
I'll be releasing a Sales 101 online course soon that's aimed at developers shortly if you're interested.
cannonedhamsteronJuly 2, 2019
How to Win Friends and Influence People. - Dale Carnegie
Influence - Robert Cialdini
Books on understanding how to push through adversity
The Obstacle Is The Way - Ryan Holiday
Man's Search For Meaning - Victor Frankly
Books on process improvement
The Phoenix Project
The Four Hour Work Week - Tim Ferriss (ignore the outsourcing bit, listen to his podcast)
Books on breaking out of your thought bubble.
Outliers - Malcolm Gladwell
Ishmael - David Quinn
Books for understanding how sales works
Ultimate Sales Machine - Chet Holmes
Negotiate As If Your Life Depended on It - Chris Voss
Any of these books are great starts. If the leadership big bites you there's way more I can suggest. Most of these are a mix of classics and new stuff. I've read them all and they want have their own style and provide their own insight. The trick is to find out what parts work with how you do and incorporate them into your flow. The learning process never ends.
SuperChihuahuaonDec 18, 2011
lpolovetsonNov 25, 2011
- Simple Heuristics That Make Use Smart by Gigerenzer, et al. (http://www.amazon.com/Simple-Heuristics-That-Make-Smart/dp/0...). I have heard good things about this book but have not read it yet.
Category 2:
- Think Twice by Mauboussin (http://www.amazon.com/Think-Twice-Harnessing-Power-Counterin...)
- Influence by Cialdini (http://www.amazon.com/Influence-Psychology-Persuasion-Busine...)
Category 3:
- You already mentioned Michalko, but his other book, Thinkertoys, is also very good (http://www.amazon.com/Thinkertoys-Handbook-Creative-Thinking...)
Category 5:
- Switch by the Heath brothers is excellent (http://www.amazon.com/Switch-Change-Things-When-Hard/dp/0385...)
douglaswlanceonDec 16, 2019
The best books I've ever read:
unotionAug 17, 2015
[1] Consider reading a book like Influence by Robert Cialdini, Ph.D. which has all kinds of fascinating studies about how people act in surprisingly illogical ways based on what they write. The book cites a number of studies on this issue of irrational consistency, and how it is routinely exploited in situations ranging from sales to indoctrination.
raneonNov 6, 2010
Personally, I couldn't register. Keeps saying I have no network yet other apps work fine.
rgloveronJuly 30, 2014
JSeymourATLonSep 12, 2014
Recommend reading Influence by Robert Cialdini > http://www.amazon.com/Robert-B.-Cialdini/e/B000AP9KKG
madhadrononMar 27, 2020
seanoonMay 20, 2008
cannonedhamsteronJuly 23, 2019
Here's the kicker it even works when the person knows you're doing it. So it was good you brought this idea up, it allowed us to have a really good conversation about it and explore it more fully.
harperleeonJuly 2, 2015
faroutonFeb 2, 2011
ok here are some ideas:
1. This is an idea from a book "The Summer Kitchen". In there the lady opens a pastry shop in a rich neighborhood. The grand opening they do a mother daughter cupcake party since their brand is we are family. they do a whole lot of other things - a good read.
2. Per the book "Feeding the Media Beast", news is something that is new, not ordinary. Duh. So what can you do that would say you are not ordinary. I was reading an article about a bakery that made a doughnut cupcake and had a cupcake that was smothered with maple syrup and bacon. This was reported in last week's Boston Sunday Globe. Yes that makes definitely stand out. Plus they made sure that they ONLY sold these maple bacon cupcakes on the weekend. As the book "Influence" says use scarcity to attract.
3. First you need to identify who is your ideal customer profile. Who is coming to your shop? Why? They are not just coming because of pastries. help them maximize this experience. make it an experience. How can you help make not just a trip to the pastry but something more.
4. As in the book "The Entrepreneur's Manual", he speaks about a barber who started a barber shop that gives free drink with a haircut. Yes it became widely successful. Then he realized that the guys were stuck with the kids since the family comes together into town to shop so he provides a free baby sitter while you get the haircut and provides a barber especially for kids. then he realizes that women want to get the free baby sitter too so opens a womens shop. This book is the bomb. The Gap analysis in here is terrific. Do the gap analysis for the pastry shop - see what is missing.
Hope this helps.
proexploitonApr 13, 2010
The other comments in this thread have the books nailed down. "How to win friends and influence people" and "Influence" are largely considered the best books on the topic. I'm very interested in body language which is very related. If you force yourself to stand confidently, you'll feel it as well the others around you. I found "What Every BODY is Saying" a lot of fun although it's not quite as full of information.
djkzonAug 26, 2013
fslothonDec 14, 2019
The way you use that leverage is then explain why you feel something is not fair. In a professional context, you can explain your position in legal terms when you take a compassionate, kind stance, smile and analytically explain the situation from both sides.
It's no more different than handling a code review.
Now, two things can happen: Either your employer is amazed that you both created a new product AND can navigate business negotiations. This is good for your career (unless your employer is an idiot).
Note that creating a new product that people love increases your market worth tremendously (unless you are already at a fairly well compensated level).
Traditionally the simplest way to compensate employees has been to give them a raise. Hint - you could ask this :)
The funny thing a higher pay grade does is that suddenly management will respect you more (we pay him x dollars so he must be awesome).
Or, the second case: you find out your employers 'mr. Niceguy' culture is actually a charade to fool people working at below market rates. At which point the fate of your sideproject totally depends on the legal feedback you received. And it would be better for you to find a better employer.
There are really good books on negotiation and influence. I suggest you read them when you have the time. Examples: Cialdini, 'Influence'. Voss, 'Never split the difference'.
corysamaonJan 18, 2016
vmurthyonDec 5, 2020
Start with No : Jim Camp [1] opened my eyes to tactics used by sales/"business" folks when they negotiate with me and provided some tips which help me in my own negotiations. Case in point: A car dealer mentioned to me casually that a car whose MRP is AUD 38800 would never be discounted below 34000. I took it as a psychological "anchor" that had to be explored and negotiated rather than agreed upon without discussion. Started with a random figure of 32349 and ended up with getting the car for 33500 ( given that it was my first negotiation, I think it's a win :-) )
Influence by Cialdini is a timeless classic that helps me appreciate the fascinating world of human psychology
[0] https://www.amazon.in/Never-Split-Difference-Negotiating-Dep...
[1] https://www.amazon.in/Start-No-Negotiating-Tools-That/dp/060...
MikeCaponeonFeb 5, 2019
-Godel, Escher, Bach (Douglas Hosfstadter)
-The Mindbody Prescription (John E. Sarno, completely cured my long-term crippling RSI that kept me from using computers and was ruining my life)
-Feeling Good (Dr. Burns, cognitive therapy mostly centered on depression, but I want to learn about this before I have depression so that I can avoid it and do 'maintenance' on myself)
-The 5 Love Languages (Gary Chapman, made me understand a lot more about how people express and receive love, and the problems that arise from mismatched languages in relationships)
-Surely You're Joking Mr. Feynman (you guys probably already know this)
-The Blank Slate (Steven Pinker)
-The Snowball (Warren Buffett biography)
-Influence (Robert B. Cialdini)
-Your Money or Your Life (Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin)
-When Heaven and Earth Changed Places: A Vietnamese Woman's Journey from War to Peace (Le Ly Hayslip)
-The Halo Effect (Phil Rosenzweig)
-The LessWrong.com sequences on rationality
mattgrattonOct 26, 2011
4 Steps to the Epiphany is a phenomenal book on selling new b2b IT products.
Secrets of Question-based Selling is the best consultative sales book
SPIN Selling by Neil Rackham is also quite good
Tested Advertising Methods and Scientific Advertising continue to be two of the best books on copywriting, despite being very old.
laurexonMay 26, 2020
Red_TarsiusonApr 7, 2015
8Mile's last battle is truly a visual reference for Influence, by Cialdini and The Art of Human Hacking, by C. Hadnagy.
As Jordan Belfort puts it, "The only real objection is that they don't trust you".
bladegashonSep 27, 2020
However, I would start by taking a look into concepts like building rapport, reflective listening, and active listening. You can even look to concepts like social engineering, e.g., priming, elicitation, etc. Most, if not all of these topics, are covered in various books on persuasion/influence.
Be careful though, as you can cross the line towards manipulation really easily easily. That’s not an inherently bad thing if the user wants/needs your product. However, it’s an entirely different story if you are persuading someone to buy something they don’t want/need. For example, a person who comes to buy a car would not be taken advantage of by selling them a car within their budget. It would be taking advantage of someone to persuade them to buy something that they didn’t ask for, was more than they needed, and was more expensive than they could afford.
Another example is the use of the principle of scarcity. While companies/people routinely pressure people into sales via statements like, “I can give this to you for 10% off, but your contract needs to be signed within 5 days due to our end of quarter goals” (yeah, I’m looking at you, Salesforce). The issue here, is that A) Chances are, they’re lying and you could get the same deal on day 6, and/or B) pressuring a customer, in my opinion, is a bit too close to making a light threat intended to spur anxiety in a customer. Everyone has their own levels of moral flexibility, though.
Anyways, I digress. Here are a couple of book recommendations: “Influence” by Robert Cialdini, “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie, and “Never Split the Difference” by Chris Voss.
unotionAug 23, 2015
bkohlmannonSep 21, 2017
-"Thinking Fast and Slow" by Daniel Khaneman
-"The Undoing Project" by Michael Lewis
-"Fooled by Randomness" and "The Black Swan" by Nassim Nicholas Taleb
-"Pre-suasion" by Cialdini
-"The Moral Animal" by Robert Wright
-"The Most Important Thing" by Howard Marks
-"Everybody Lies" by Seth Stevens-Davidowitz
-"How to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big" by Scott Adams
-The "Freakonomics" Trilogy
cannonedhamsteronOct 16, 2017
How to Win Friends and Influence People is a fantastic book on people in general.
Influence is a great book for managing up, or understanding why your people react the way that they do.
The basics for any manager are the following:
1. Know what you're solving for, know what your people are solving for. Make sure that they are in alignment.
2. Invest in your people. Time, money, etc. Not just technical skills, but soft skills. A smile and remembering someone's name go a long way.
3. Keep everything that isn't their job, out of their job. If someone is a bottleneck then there needs to be a defined point in time every week where they do documentation and/or training until they are no longer the bottleneck. Assume it will take other people longer to do the same task at first and accept it, make sure that they understand this is normal.
Edit: I'd also include this blog post in your reading: http://firstround.com/review/this-90-day-plan-turns-engineer...
davemel37onFeb 8, 2015
Use Your Noodle and Get The Boodle (aka Think and Grow Rich by Napolean Hill - that was his proposed but rejected title),
Influence, The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini,
Be My Guest - Conrad Hilton Autobiography,
Benjamin Franklin's Autobiography,
The Success System That Never Fails - W. Clement Stone,
Winning Through Intimidation - Robert Ringer,
Scientific Advertising - Claude Hopkins,
The Ultimate Marketing Plan - Dan Kennedy,
How to Win Friends and influence People - Dale Carnegie,
The Psychology of Intelligence - CIA Manual - Richard Heuer https://www.cia.gov/library/center-for-the-study-of-intellig... ,
There are literally thousands of books worth reading, but the above are the ones I found to be the most enlightening.
allie1onApr 20, 2021
What I love is spaced repetition of the highlights. I don't do it time based though. I do it based on subject, and this gets a lot more powerful when it's more than one book on a subject.
For example - go through my highlights on Influence (Chialdini), Thinking Fast and Slow, Poor Charlie's Almanac, and think about how they complement each other.
Seeing the same subject from multiple points of view, sometimes conflicting, other times corroborating each other is very helpful to build a more wholesome base of knowledge.
PhithagorasonJuly 4, 2020
- "Made to stick" by Chip and Dan Heath
- "The Dissapearing Spoon" got me curious about chemistry
-"Uncle Tungsten" by Oliver Sacks got me started on the rest of his books, taking my fascination in chemistry and nudging it towards medicine, neurology and psychology.
- "The Social Animal" and "Influence" showed me more about psychology
- Borrowing a copy of the classic textbook Gray's Anatomy while recuperating from a serious accident showed me how fascinating the human body is
dpritchettonMar 10, 2011
These strategies take advanage of humans' built-in decision making and survival heuristics. Women like a man who's already taken because they can assume that his current mate has already extensively vetted him for desirability. Anyone who smells desperate trips alarms and gets you wondering why they can't find a mate / job /client.
There's a fine line between putting your best foot forward and cynically manipulating everyone around you of course. Robert Cialdini's book "Influence" shows you where the line is and how to stay on the clean side.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Cialdini#Six_.22Weapons_...
(P.S., thanks for prgmr. I enjoy my service.)
whalesaladonSep 2, 2017
wenconJune 25, 2021
* Designing Data Intensive Applications (M Kleppmann): Provided a first-principles approach for thinking about the design of modern large-scale data infrastructure. It's not just about assembling different technologies -- there are principles behind how data moves and transforms that transcend current technology, and DDIA is an articulation of those principles. After reading this, I began to notice general patterns in data infrastructure, which helped me quickly grasp how new technologies worked. (most are variations on the same principles)
* Introduction to Statistical Learning (James et al) and Applied Predictive Modeling (Kuhn et al). These two books gave me a grand sweep of predictive modeling methods pre-deep learning, methods which continue to be useful and applicable to a wider variety of problem contexts than AI/Deep Learning. (neural networks aren't appropriate for huge classes of problems)
* High Output Management (A Grove): oft-recommended book by former Intel CEO Andy Grove on how middle management in large corporations actually works, from promotions to meetings (as a unit of work). This was my guide to interpreting my experiences when I joined a large corporation and boy was it accurate. It gave me a language and a framework for thinking about what was happening around me. I heard this was 1 of 2 books Tobi Luetke read to understand management when he went from being a technical person to CEO of Shopify. (the other book being Cialdini's Influence). Hard Things about Hard Things (B Horowitz) is a different take that is also worth a read to understand the hidden--but intentional--managerial design of a modern tech company. These some of the very few books written by practitioners--rather than management gurus--that I've found to track pretty closely with my own real life experiences.
filterkaapionDec 23, 2018
Grit by Angela Duckworth
swahonSep 25, 2016
dtmooreivonJuly 22, 2020
hasitsethonMar 5, 2017
1. Art of Argument - Giles St.Aubyn (ISBN 0800803698)
2. Influence - Robert Cialdini (006124189X)
After that, try reading some Bertrand Russell writings. See how your argument and persuasion quality jumps from above resources.
notimetorelaxonMay 22, 2018
0. Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, Second Edition
1. The Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable
2. Elon Musk: Tesla, SpaceX, and the Quest for a Fantastic Future
3. Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance
4. Steve Jobs: The Exclusive Biography
5. What Got You Here Won't Get You There
6. The Power of Vulnerability: Teachings of Authenticity, Connection, and Courage
7. The Obstacle Is the Way: The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph
8. The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over
9. Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion
10. Pre-Suasion: Channeling Attention for Change
11. Thinking, Fast and Slow
12. Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
13. Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life
14. Originals: How Non-Conformists Move the World
15. Radical Candor: Be a Kick-Ass Boss Without Losing Your Humanity
16. Sapiens
17. The Everything Store: Jeff Bezos and the Age of Amazon
18. If you like space: Endurance: A Year in Space, a Lifetime of Discovery
19. Shoe Dog: A Memoir by the Creator of Nike
20. Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking
21. Long Walk to Freedom: The Autobiography of Nelson Mandela
22. The DevOps Handbook: How to Create World-Class Agility, Reliability, and Security in Technology Organizations
bartelbyonJune 5, 2020
It also might be that your company has grown to a point where not everyone's self-interest is aligned with the company's best interest. Would recommend Loonshots by Safi Bahcall which explores that idea quite a bit too.
JamesLeonisonJune 21, 2012
There are also other ways to compensate an employee that does not necessarily involve a cost, such as flexible hours or work from home.
[1]: http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/479628.Influence_Rev_
jonvillageonDec 26, 2017
Maxims - Epictetus
The road to serfdom - Friedrich Hayek
De officiis - Cicero
De divinatione - Cicero
Lives of eminent philosophers - Diogenes Laertius
Confessions - Al ghazali
Illiad - Homer
Odyssey - Homer
Influence - Robert Cialdini
Guns, Germs and steel - Jared Diamond
Poor Charlie's Almanack - Charlie Munger - 2nd reading
Andrew Carnegie's Biography - Joseph Frazier
Fooled by Randomness - Nassim Taleb - 2nd reading
Bed of Procrustes - Nassim Taleb
Never Split the Difference - Christopher Voss
The intelligent investor - Benjamin Graham
Autobiography - Benjamin Franklin
I always remember this quote:
"In my whole life, I have known no wise people who didn't read all the time -- none, zero." Charlie Munger
tsatterstenonSep 18, 2015
-Selling The Invisible by Harry Beckwith (great look at selling services)
-Secrets of Closing The Sale by Zig Ziglar (gets you prepared for objections)
-How to Become A Rainmaker by Jeffrey Fox (shortcuts to better sales techniques)
-The Little Red Book of Selling by Jeffrey Gitomer (best first book for first time salespeople)
As mentioned in other posts, I would also add SPIN Selling, Mastering the Complex Sale and The Referral Engine.
"Smart" books in the sales space include Influence, Made To Stick, To Sell Is Human.
For motivation, read more Zig, Tony Robbins, and Dale Carnegie.
FleursDuMalonMar 11, 2008
The role that biases play in my own thinking. Charlie Munger's speech that was on this site a while ago articulates a lot of things I was beginning to realize (http://vinvesting.com/docs/munger/human_misjudgement.html)
I struggled for a long time with procrastination and low productivity. When I realized that abandoning the parts of my life that were not deeply fulfilling (browsing the web aimlessly, refreshing RSS feeds, wasting time in forums, watching tv etc) would not actually be as painful as I thought it would, it changed how I live and work in a very fundamental way.
wenconFeb 19, 2020
Theory and practice, when done together, is much more powerful than either alone.
Good practice books like "High Output Management", "Influence", "Hard Things about Hard Things" gives you a view of what other people at other (high-functioning) organizations do and exposes you to the norms in industry. They also give you mental models to think about things, and helps you to become aware of the problems you never knew existed. And it helps your normalize your expectations: you may think your company sucks, but reading widely and critically helps you realize even the very best companies deal with the same problems and don't really have significantly better solutions.
Reading a good book is like having a conversation with and picking the brain of a really competent mentor, dead or alive, and of a calibre that not exist in your organization. Internal mentorship is sometimes oversold. Most organizations have managers that have merely adapted to their local ecosystem and don't really have any insight on management as a craft. Managers who learned purely through experience tend to be shaped by the company's culture and may do very well in their niche but lack imagination to go beyond because they have no theory to hang their thoughts on.
Also, books are like travel -- you don't know what you don't know until you've seen for yourself what exists. You sometimes need to peek outside your organization to see what other cultures exist.
mryanonJune 26, 2012
A surprising number of people seem to think that they are getting a bargain if they pay early. I appreciate "a surprising number" is not a highly accurate data point :) I am currently reading Cialdini's Influence - some of the research suggests this method of offering the carrot before the stick do work.
antiismistonJuly 14, 2009
Some of the tricks are really narrow and so they aren't all that useful themselves (e.g. to write post it notes and put those on interoffice forms and surveys for a better response), but with the theories you can make better extrapolations.
dingbatonOct 25, 2016
At the end of his big bestseller Influence, he goes into a long-winded moralization about how he hopes his work helps people resist the terrible influence of immoral salesmanship... for example by being mindful of the "secret weapons" of Social Proof and Authority and Scarcity.
of course, he writes this in a book (a NATIONAL BESTSELLER as it says on the cover) that is literally covered in testimonials and promotional blurbs from "thought leaders" with credentials, mainstream publications like HBR and Fortune, praising Cialdini, PHD for revealing "little known secrets of Master Influencers" yada yada yada.
bengali3onJuly 20, 2015
I did think about this reciprocity initially when I heard no equity involved, however I don't think YC & Co's problem is getting startups to agree take their money after mentoring? Their issue is likely getting enough investment opportunities to put cash into as fast as they can raise it. ( ie-pretty fast ). For that they need a bigger opportunity pipeline.
So, i basically agree that they are getting first dibs, but due little to Cialdini's rule on reciprocity. I'd point more towards 'Liking' (ie building the trust early) or 'Authority' since they are getting in the door first with founders and are likely the initial startup mentor.
What I see, is that this program is just a simple (relative) way to ignite some ideas that are on the cusp of being implemented, remove some of the founding barriers, and start a conversation with their team earlier on in the process (no one wants to be the third on the list to call to invest in a great co.). The standard YC class schedule and size limitations are likely the gating factors to their growth, especially when interest in 'startup investing' isn't declining, and YC has already made moves to make it easier for non-accredited investors to invest.
Maybe this is in line with what you were referring to.
dropboxonMar 22, 2007
- the innovator's dilemma by clayton christensen
- blue ocean strategy (kim and mauborgne) -- these two books give you a little bit more of a framework to evaluate where your idea adds value and give you examples of how/why some successful companies have been successful
- high tech startup by nesheim -- a little dated, but lots of info
- negotiation/people books: getting to yes (fisher, ury) and getting past no (ury), influence by cialdini
(useful for more than just startups)
- maybe some management books: peopleware (demarco and lister), the art of project management (berkun), first, break all the rules (buckingham)
- founders at work (livingston) to get inspired
+1 to crossing the chasm, and the godin & gladwell books, art of the start
blogs: onstartups.com, fred wilson, brad feld, seth godin, etc., guy kawasaki
-drew
zinxqonFeb 7, 2008
hammeringtimeonAug 8, 2015
* Seeing like a State by James Scott - a good political history with lots of insight into many conventions in our modern society, such as even last names, were created to make society manageable by a central government.
* Europe and the Europeans by Barzini - the closest thing I have found to being a time traveler, skipping between different places and times in Europe from 1920 to the 1970's.
yusufponDec 26, 2017
1. Human biases: Every mental model is built upon some human bias.
2. How incentives work: Understanding the motivation behind why people do what they do.
3. Mental thought construction: Understanding how the brain gathers, processes and stores information.
4. Biology: How we've evolved (and haven't) from stone age times and how that still influences us today.
This is by no means exhaustive but are just some of the topics I've found most useful. That said, here are the best resources I've found:
- The Art Of Thinking Clearly by Rolf Dobelli: Taught me about human biases. Reads like a directory of most biases.
- Influence by Robert Cialdini: Taught me about incentives and a whole lot more.
- Metaphors We Live By by George Lakoff: Taught me about mental thought construction.
- Poor Charlie's Almanack by Charles Munger: Taught me about many things but most importantly good decision making.
- Sapiens by Yuval Harari and his course https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLE-kxvSEhkzDEmLQx3RE0...: Taught me about how we've evolved as humans and how we haven't.
- Thinking Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman: Taught me more about human biases.
- Predictably Irrational by Dan Ariely: Taught me more about how and why we make decisions and what good decisions are.
The thing I've really started to notice is it's not enough to know or read about mental models, you have to ruthlessly apply them. This is tough when even knowing about your biases doesn't stop you from still being affected by them.
garethspriceonOct 19, 2011
To paraphrase badly, there's examples along the lines of "So I laid my hat on the desk, asked his girl to fetch us some coffee and said '...so let's name the company after you'. He took the deal.".
Following that to the letter would likely get you kicked out (ie. wearing a fedora to a business meeting makes you look like a loon, summoning the nearest woman to fetch you coffee would likely get you a dirty look or a lawsuit) but the underlying principle of giving up credit to the other guy so everyone gets what they want is still a valuable principle.
You can't create word-for-word scripts for social interaction as context varies wildly between situations, locations and time periods - but there are underlying principles of interaction that can be modeled and learned, especially by those who are not naturally gifted with communication skills.
(Some other fascinating books on this subject: Robert Cialdini's Influence and Eric Berne's Games People Play)
fslothonNov 19, 2015
fslothonFeb 5, 2019
Actually transformative concepts are usually not simple, and they need to mature in the thinkers mind.
Most important subjects are ao large it would be impossible to cram them into a single book.
Books can be insightfull and amazing, and there are several that are so vivid I find chapters from them popping into my head. A few recent books I feel have been very enligthening to me:
Notes on the synthesis of form by Alexander. Skunk works by Ben Richie. Influence by Cialdini. Skin in the game by Taleb. Isaacson's biographies.
skmurphyonJune 26, 2009
For an article that summarizes key concepts see http://skmurphy.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/04/Crucial%20Mar...
There is a companion slide deck here http://www.skmurphy.com/f/SDForum061211.pdf
motohagiographyonJuly 9, 2020
People who haven't read laterally in it tend to only have one or two tools that have worked for them up to their level. Haggling, bargaining, and auction models aren't really negotiation. Reality is, it's the process of price discovery, often with people who are looking for rules they can break and points of leverage.
vidarhonOct 25, 2019
The idea any of us can resist - not even large corporations, but friends, neighbours, random people on the street - is just not supported by reality.
We're all incredibly prone to pretty basic psychological manipulation; and we're prone to it even when we're aware it's happening. Our society is built on the functioning of simple psychological manipulation to the point where it's often impossible to draw a line between what is manipulative vs. just following social norms.
Often you can see flat out people recognizing it - e.g. people not wanting to accept a gift, because they realize it will make them feel obligated to do something back for someone and find it easier to avoid the would-be gift-giver than to not let it influence them.
I agree with you the Amish response is over the top, though, and it's full of the same issues.
mtrimpeonMay 22, 2013
After I read his Influence book I couldn't have a normal interaction with sales people for a long time, since every time I'd recognise the techniques I would feel manipulated and angry.
It wasn't until a few years later that I actually could be impressed with the finesse of their execution while evaluating the morals of their actions separately.
kthejoker2onNov 20, 2017
* The Design of Everyday Things
* Design for the Real World
* A Pattern Language
* Notes on the Synthesis of Form
* Never Leave Well Enough Alone
* Don't Make Me Think
* How Things Don't Work
* Usable Usability
* The Visual Display of Quantitative Information
* A Theory of Fun for Game Design
Other left-field books I've found myself going back to for design inspiration more than I would've thought
* The Death and Life of Great American Cities
* The Philosophy of Andy Warhol
* Influence by Robert Caldini
* Shakespeare: The Invention of the Human
* The Art of Looking Sideways
* Cosmos
* Operating Manual for Spaceship Earth
* The Theory of Moral Sentiments
And just specifically for computer UX, Smashing UX Design is a pretty good crash course.
Robin_MessageonMay 16, 2012
Secondly, teaching defense against the dark arts generally requires giving the students a working knowledge of the dark arts. Would you object to the publication of Robert Cialdini's Influence on the same basis?
Thirdly, by illustrating how easy it is to damage the free exchange of information, he helps individuals become more resistant to lies and helps the internet develop new ways to fight misinformation. Think of him as a vaccine to the actual 'information terrorists.'
andygcookonJune 3, 2020
mindhashonNov 25, 2020
Lean analytics. (must read)
Product-Led growth. (must read)
22 Laws of marketing (must)
One million followers
If you like scientific approach:
Influence by Robert Cialdini
Contagious (Jonah Berger)
This resource is also gold: https://brianbalfour.com/essays/customer-acquisition
I am also documenting my learnings in a book [1].
[1] https://book.amols.blog/59decisions
criddellonFeb 13, 2019
I'm thinking specifically of some books that I've read in the past couple of years that include:
I think all of these books suffer from the common pattern of present an idea then a bunch of examples that demonstrate the idea. I don't think you lose anything by ditching the examples. The core ideas are usually well stated and don't need clarification or demonstration.
BeetleBonDec 15, 2017
I doubt it. Turkey has it yet there are plenty of problems between religious people and secular people, as well as between Kurds and other Turks.
The book Influence by Cialdini dives deep into some of the elements needed. Some takeaways that I remember:
Forcing people to be together in unpleasant circumstances, without a common goal they can work towards, does not reduce the us vs them mindset. His example was school, but anything "mandatory" would qualify.
If people are forced to be together, and they work together voluntarily to solve a problem (e.g. by one side needing the other side's skills), then you have reduced polarization.
socialmediakingonNov 14, 2011
aj__onJuly 28, 2015
1. Thinking Fast and Slow - Daniel Kahneman. If you're going to read one, read this. A lot of theory undergirding how people think. Decision making by people will make a lot more sense after this.
2. Influence - Robert Cialdani. Less theory and more pragmatic advice on how to influence people.
3. Drive - Daniel Pink, Switch - Chip Heath, Made to Stick - Chip Heath, Predictably Irrational - Dan Ariely. Books on specific sub-categories. More pop-psych. Information density is less, but easier to read.
4. Poor Charlie's Almanac - Charlie Munger. Best known as Warren Buffett's partner, this book is a collection of his speeches, letters, etc... You get an idea of how he thinks but, but you have to dig through the repetitive ramble to get it. Think of it as Charlie observing a lot of the prior principles but putting it into a real life/business context.
asharkonMar 27, 2017
I'd been teetering on the fence with this book for about a year, but I think you just sold me on it (haha!)
Any idea whether it's worth an extra ~$7 for the (I gather) textbookified version of Influence subtitled "Science and Practice", 5th edition, versus the Revised Edition of the more mass-market "The Psychology of Persuasion"?
soundsoponMar 19, 2008
You Can Negotiate anything is a short book that gives tips and pointers and gives examples of negotiating tactics.
Influence is a fascinating book by a psychologist that supports every major point by describing various psychological findings and major events that exemplify that point.
The first book is more of a how-to book and the second is more of a why-it's-the-case book. I found both to be valuable in helping me recognize negotiating tactics, which hopefully makes me less vulnerable to being unconsciously influenced.
dpritchettonMay 14, 2010
That reminds me, I need to finish that book. I believe it's on the Personal MBA list if that interests you.
http://www.amazon.com/Influence-Psychology-Persuasion-Robert...
theojonApr 11, 2011
I'd say you need to do a couple of things. First, provide progress updates while building. Once you're done building and you decide to approach them again, re-iterate the pain points and benefits and try to build back that initial excitement. Also, read up on the principle of consistency in sales (for example pick up the book Influence by Cialdini). The idea is this: if you initially got a written and public commitment from the prospects, then those prospects will keep their word. They may also be less willing to flatter you given that kind of a commitment.
monksyonNov 16, 2016
Yes. This is SOP.
> But, several times during the 2016 campaign I actually caught myself thinking that I didn't trust her. And, I had to remind myself why I liked her.
Don't take this the wrong way, but to me that sounds like cognitive dissonance. If you believe that it was actually unfactual information, I would suggest researching what influenced you badly and try to identify that next time.
Most of this stuff has remained the same since Robert Caldini wrote about it in his book Influence. It's just the tactics and strategies on how to apply them.
rajuonJune 4, 2008
Having said that, my simple advice is - Get Outside. Like a lot of other hackers, trivial social talk bored me. I love intellectual conversations and topics, and reached a point where the only "real" conversations I was having were online. But lately, I have been pushing myself to go outside and meet other people. Try taking a genuine interest in them, and you will come to realize that not only are other people as interesting and passionate as you, but a lot of them have the same issue as you, in that they find it hard to meet interesting people.
Over the weekends, I have been getting out of my apartment and heading out to a local coffee shop. Familiarity helps, going to the same place a few times means you get to know the staff and some of the regulars. Strike up a conversation with the person on the next table.
Throw a party. Ask your friends to call their friends. Its easier that way because you have overcome the first hurdle, and that is - "What do I say?". Start by asking someone knew how they came to know of the party!
Join some social groups - book clubs, dancing classes, martial arts or a meditation group (whatever interests you). These are great places to meet new people with similar interests (and no, the Local Linux groups does not count :D)
At the end of the day, social interactions take practice, much like anything else. You need to pursue it and treat it like any other task ("Deliberate Practice"). Over time you will come to realize that its not that hard. Yes, sometimes you fall flat on your face, but would you rather not try?
There are several books that can help, if you like to read up on it, two come to mind -
1. How to Win Friends & Influence People
2. Never Eat Alone
3. How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
Good luck!
FiatLuxDaveonDec 26, 2014
Robert Cialdini may be the one who is most associated with this phrase. A few other items which reference it are:
Cialdini, Robert B. (October 2001). "Harnessing the science of persuasion". Harvard Business Review 79 (9): 72–79.
Cialdini, Robert (1993). Influence (3rd ed.). New York: HarperCollins.
So, I suppose the real question is, why does Google trends show a beginning in 2007?
Edit: There appear to be a number of articles about Cialdini's book in 2007. It appears that there was a Washington Post article in 2007 that spurred the interest spike: http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/magazine/pearls-befo...
james_niroonDec 29, 2019
Fooled by randomness- Nassim T
Principle - Ray Dalio
Drive - D Pink
The Laws of Human Nature -R Greene
Influence- Robert Cialdini
21st lessons for 21st century - Y. Harari
Why we sleep -M. Walker
Skin in the Game - Nassim T.
Social Animal - David B.
Einstein - Isaacson
Steve Jobs - Isaacson
Blink - malcolm gladwell
Outlier - malcolm gladwell
The tipping point - malcolm gladwell
Game of Throne series